Mostly,among teenagers always seen to be
involved in this situation. Teenage parents give birth in a motel room
and leave the child for dead in a dumpster. A girl gives birth in a
school bathroom at night. throws the baby into the garbage or in the
toilet.These stories relate to one of the most frightening realities of
our culture today: some children are viewed as problems to be thrown
away rather than gifts to be treasured. More recently, the tragedy of
Baby Dumping
has begun to be addressed by state legislatures throughout the nation.
For example, a number of states have passed laws to provide funding,
care, and services for dumped children. These legislative actions have
also established 'safe houses' - public centers such as fire stations,
police stations, and other public areas where women can bring unwanted
children rather then leave them in trash receptacles. The hope is that,
by offering an alternative to dumping,
women might leave their children with people who can help the baby.
Surprisingly, these cases have got a lot of attention from the
community. So, what are the best opinions and ways that should be taken
to prevent this scenario from spreading?
The
problems usually follow the flow, first is illegal racing, commonly it
being held at night, and of course it gives troubles to other road
users. Apart from that, it also can be deadly for that person. After
having a race, usually they will headed to children
activities including their children social life but nowadays parents
are different, they trust their children can manage their life wisely.
Parents should care about their children activities and friends. Parents
must know what their children doing and with whom their children are
friend withthe
night club. This is the place where they start to take drugs and become
addicted to alcohol. When they are under the influence of drugs and
alcohol, it will lead them to have an unprotected sex, which means
having sex without taking any prevention for pregnancy
The problems usually follow the flow, first is illegal racing, commonly
it being held at night, and of course it gives troubles to other road
users. Apart from that, it also can be deadly for that person. After
having a race, usually they will headed to the night club. This is the
place where they start to take drugs and become addicted to alcohol.
When they are under the influence of drugs and alcohol, it will lead
them to have an unprotected sex, which means having sex without taking
any prevention for pregnancy.
High
school students are too immature to fully understand the effects of
free sex could have on their lives. So there is no doubt that another
problem will be created because of that. For sure the problem is
abortion and baby dumping. Panic of being pregnant unexpectedly, they
take a risk to abort the baby before their family aware of the physical
changes later on. Abortion is a risky action which can be fatal to the
mother. But being in desperate situation like this, they cannot think
rationally anymore. But not all of them are having enough gut to take
the risk for abortion. Some of them decided to give birth to the baby,
but then at the end of it, because of some reasons, they dump the baby
without hesitate. Dump the baby means that they throw away the babies at
any places without taking care of it later. Usually the babies were
dump just after they were born. In most of the cases, the babies were
already dead when they were found by someone else.
Sometimes,
parents don’t give full attention to their children as today many
parents are expect their children are good enough. Parents are also too
busy with their jobs until they forget to give attention to their
children. This is a serious problem among parents as they don’t know
what their children are doing. According to Dr. Khaidzir Ismail,
Psychologists of children and adolescents from University of Kebangsaan
Malaysia, 2007, “Conflict in the family kicked out of youth to find a
place and friends can help overcome life and at the same time meet the
needs of finance, entertainment and emotional development”. If someone
has poor parental modeling but still goes on to make fantastic life
choices, in the same time, they not get attention from family; so very
easy to son and daughter involved with social problem like baby dumping.
The
first reason is teenagers are lacking of sex education. Parents and
schools do not inject sex education onto teenagers' mind since they were
small. Parents always think that their children will understand
everything about sex when they grow up. This is the natural ability that
everybody has and they no need to talk to their children about sex.
Most of the parents feel ashamed and uncomfortable everytime their
children ask them questions about sex.They refuse to give a positive
explanation and a clear view to their children and always claim that
they are too small to know about sex. The same thing also happens in
schools at where schools do not have sex education as one of their
compulsory courses. Most of the schools also never hold any activity
about sex education such as talks.They remain quiet and proclaim that
these small children will get to know what is sex when they grow up.But,
children still gain nothing when they grow up. They do not understand
their bodies and some of them may not know what is the differences
between boys and girls.Due to the lack of these basic knowledge, surely
they do not know how and where a baby comes. So they start to involve
with a sexual problem that brought to baby dumping.
